judgemental

sometimes one can be too quick to judge for our own good..

was at the lift at home the other day and there were 2 other Indians waiting for the lift also. My first instinct was "OMG, somany foreigners" what a bother. But lo and behold, the man was so gentleman enough to give way to me first and the elderly indian lady was so friendly she greeted me with a smile in the lift. what a shame.

went into the lift with this time 2 elderly malay. Again the lady was so friendly she said with ahuge smile, good morning and gave a big smile.. (while the chinese always go into the lift look at the floor count the ants, look at the ceiling count the lizard)

Need to find time to take a break, prob 2 weeks later, sit at home soak in the presence of God. Busy with trainings and meetings in the weekday, sat gym(though i enjoy it), appointments and somehow never ending appointments (though most are enjoyable). even had to put Home in my diary..

Need to ask God how to truly have fellowship with Him..

To add my take on the Jack Neo incident.. personally

1) He don’t owe anyone else an apology except to his own family. I don’t really care if an artiste is infidel, gay or alcoholic etc because the main thing is as long as he keep his day job and do it well, that’s my main thing.
2) I don’t agree what the media said that he is using his wife to shield away from his own guilt, i mean if he know that it’ll make him look bad, definitely he won’t try this tactic
3) I salute the wife for standing by the husband, that’s the difference between asian and western, that for the traditional family, once your husband, forever your husband, as long as he doesn’t take it as a sign that he can go on this way forever.
4) Well, and the most debatable point, in the article, there was an interview with an ex local actor now millionaire, he says for the ladies, don’t expect the man to be 100% loyal, because less likely it’ll happen, well probably 1 out of 1000 men. His fine line is, whatever you do outside, don’t take it home. And at the end of the day, the priority is still your wife and family... worth pondering upon...